General Chat

I want my Mum and Dad there. It is 21 years today since my Mum passed away.Sadly I wasn't exactly there. she died in my front room she had lived with me since my Dad died. I knew she was dying but daren't tell. Though only a few days before she told me she had had enough. I was sitting with her and she said what are you doing so I went in the other room for a while kept popping in and out though her eyes were open I think she was in a coma. When I went in the last ime she had gone though it must have only just happened. So although I wish I had stayed she knew I was there really. I was with my Dad when he went too. Sadly we had no experiences and though I have tried many times have never had any proof of after life though I do believe. Germaine x

I would like Jesus to meet me first - then I'll know for sure that I'm in heaven and not hell ! Other than that I just want to see all the members of my family that have gone before me - but knowing my dad he'll be at the head of the queue !

I would like my eldest brother to meet me. He died when I was 4 and he was 14. I have such lovely memories of playing with him when I was little and he used to make me mincemeat sandwiches (!!!!!) He was lovely! If he can't make it then my ex-husband's grandad cos he was really funny and my best friend for a long time. Julie xxx

For me it would most definately have to be my Dad who died almost 15 years ago Sarah, xxx

I would love my Mum to be there waiting for me, with her beautiful smile and her red (oops sorry mum 'auburn') hair glowing and straight..she had curly hair like me and always tried her best to straighten it, it always went curly as soon as she stepped out of the door.... And then my Nana's & Grandads. But Im not ready to go yet, so they will have to wait :))

More for Dads and Mums and sorry about the loss of your baby Clare my daughter lost one a little girl 6 years ago and she still hurts about her, Davex

Jayvee, You've got me thinking now. Maybe before I float off into the ether (Fat chance at my present weight!), I'd just like to go 'downstairs' and see what's cooking - or rather 'who'(!), but I wouldn't accept an invitation to stay! CB >|<

My Dad - I have always said that if my mother or my ex are there I am coming straight back! Ann

My parents and grandparents for no other reason than they are the ones to whom I'm closest. My only hope is that I am remembered by someone when it's my time to go...preferably not someone like the taxman. ;-)

My Nana and Grandad and my son's twin who never made it into this world. Daisy

Everybody I ever loved who has gone before me. ....I can't resist a party! Dee x

I wonder who decides? Is it us, them, some jobsworth or the boss himself! If the choice is mine then I would like my sister to meet me, for the cross over. I never really new her because she died when I was just six months old; she was 3 but in my heart has always ment a lot to me. She has to take me straight to my Mum though as she is the one person I really really want to see again. Margaret

I would like to meet my gr-grandfather Shenton boy will i have words to say to him i can't find his birth any were.Gill

When I go I want to be knocked over in the rush - I want to be greeted by all the dogs I have ever had and loved. There have been 5 of them so far in my adult life, one of them Baez lived until she was 16, another one Boswell wasn't even a year old when he died, I know he will be waiting for me, along with Beau my English Setter, who was his best friend, so much so that he stopped eating when Boz died, and went to be with him 3 weeks later! Bella my black Labrador and Flookie, a hairy cross-breed who was Bella's partener in crime for so many years make up the final two. The people in my life that have passed over can wait a while, first I would like to see my dogs. Jak

My Grandad.... with a bar of toffee and his toffee hammer!! :O)

My Mum & Dad with my two elder Bros,the eldest of which none of us siblings met as he was Mum& Dads first born who died aged 3 months, my bro who died in 2000 & my elder sis who died in 2001 Would like to give a hug too ,to my MIL & FIL to whom I was another daughter! Plus my lovely cat PUSS PUSS who died aged 17plus. Shirley

I would like my Dad to meet me Dave Luv JoJo xx

My parents and I guess they'll make arrangements for a party with rest of the tree. Also would be nice to have an eternal guide in the shape of a blonde ............. or a brunette ........... auburn maybe ? .............. OK grey will be fine !