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nudging for Dave

Ade - sorry to hear that luvvie - hope you can find someone else who fits the bill even better. Andy - join the club hun!! Some lovely stories on here. Thanks folks. Maz. XX

i have definately found mine!! weve been married 27 years in november and were together a year before that. not only is terry my soul mate but hes my best friend too. i know he can be a prat sometimes and do a stripping act maz but i still love him lmao susie

nope, but I live in hope.

I have found mine and im never letting him go (not that he wants to o lol) xx

I did but she took another path in life :(

Yes - after kissing frogs lol I met my Paul and he is my soulmate - he knows when I am sad and is always there to comfort me.

I'm not sure that the love of your life and your soul mate are necessarily the same person. I think living with someone with whom you are always in tune and complete agreement would get a bit boring. I met my OH at a fairly early age and we have been arguing ever since but I wouldn't have it any other way. My soul mate was a friend with whom I rarely argued but could never have lived with. Gwynne

I found mine on a disco floor in 1977 celebrated our 26th wedding anniversary on Thursday. xxhugxx

Thought I had found mine several times, but there is only one I still have dreams about at night and I think he really was the one true love of my life - it was real 'eyes meeting across a crowded room'(well, pub) stuff too. However after 7 traumatic years of 'I can't live with you and I can't live without you', we finally split and within just a few years he had married, twice, and has been with the same woman, half his age, for around 20 years and they have three kids. If he sees me out, especially if he is with his daughters, he will avoid me like the plague. I don't think I will ever feel like that about someone again. When my son's girlfriend moved into her new flat, I realised it was just along the road from his house so now whenever I visit I have to drive past his home - it's a funny feeling.

I've been married 25 years and definately haven't found mine. Can't see I ever will now!

Maz Your thread reminded me of Nancy Mitford's novel, 'Love in a Cold Climate'. At the end of the book, the narrator is discussing her dead cousin with her mother (known as the bolter because she has run off with so many men). The daughter says that she - the cousin - would have been happy with a man 'he was the love of her life' and the mother says sadly 'Oh darling! One always thinks that! Every, every time!' Some people meet a soulmate, others don't. some people are promiscuous, some have serial marriages/relationships. I don't think of my husband as 'the love of my life' but I think we are meant to be together and I know that despite all the ups and downs we are fundamentally there for eachother. nell

Don't mean to worry you Gillie - but thats what I thought too lol!!! Until he upped and went grrrrrrrrr

Thought i had mine until tonight and i saw him in a different light. R.B. X

I suppose I want too much (!) seems you can find someone who is perfect in one department but lacks something in another - why can't I get the whole package - if you know what I mean lol

I didn't know wine came in any other form than large glasses except straight from the bottle lol. Do you reckon there's only one love of a life or soulmate cos I don't - I think you have different ones in different ways. But perhaps I've had to much to drink :))

David babe I am drinking large glasses of wine lol - have to when you have 'you know who' on msn pmsl Nice to hear so many people have found 'the one' - you don't hear much happy news so makes a change! Maz. XX

Hi Maz, I have found mine. I always knew we were soul mates, It took him a little longer to realise! He has found out now, second time round! (Wont go on too much, you know what i mean). Pat

Bloody hell Maz - you ain't dead yet! It'll come when you're ready for it and in the mean time you need to keep on making the most of your life like you're already doing:)))

;) maz- i have that t shirt.lol. but last night hubby and myself [both on our second marriage] decided to count how many married couples we both knew who we could both agree on them being happily married. the result= nil ! was a bit of a surprise to us both, lol. most couples we named had been together a lot longer than us. so.. sometimes the second time around is much better [i certainly think so] and you never know what is around that corner...... sue. x [mind you after our 11 year engagement i did know what i was doing this time, pmsl !]