General Chat

Hi Guys, He's not going to change his mind. If I want my marriage to last I must stay here. I have told him I will stay if things change. All I want is a family doctor and dentist, a pension, a fully taxed and mot'd car and to be out of the apartment we are in now. Normal everyday things that we have never had here. We have always lived in limbo. I don't think it's too much to ask. He now hates himself because everyone hates him. I don't and neither does anyone else. I just hope its not an excuse to push himself away from me. Natalia x

PS Thats a family doctor not a family, and a doctor lol

Natalia, Well my dear progress is being made as you are talking. I wish you all the best and sincerely hope that things work out for you. Jean x.

Remember I'm here for you Natalia, 24/7 All my love becx

All the very best Natalia. Deanna XX

Yeah, Now he has taken to sitting in the bedroom head in hands feeling sorry for himself. He really is impossible sometimes. I am not making him feel bad at all. I have kept my head whilst he has lost his and just kept calm and have been nice. Now I have to feel guilty for him being upset.

Go and give him a hug and say I love you. Then remind him about looking for an appartment ect lol ! E x

I've done that Elaine, He says he just wants to be on his own. He's at work now and isn't bothering coming home between his shows. He is going to watch the football though. He won't be in until 1:30.

Natalia I wish you well and I really do hope things work out for you. ((((((HUGS)))))) Juliexx

Thanks Guys, Louise, I sincerely hope its the right choice. I am just worried he will walk all over me if I keep doing what he wants all the time.

Hi Natalia, Whatever else you do, DO NOT feel guilty. I have a very good friend who allows her husband to use emotional blackmail & it doesn't make her happy. All the things you mention are well within your capability to fix. While he is feeling sorry for himself just go out & sort it! I'm still thinking of you & sending positive energy Go for it girl Vivienne

Hello Natalia - fingers crossed for you, all you can do is give it a try. chin up;o)))) jude sarf wales xx

good luck natalia,i wish you well. bryan.

Thanks all, Just waiting to see what Toothfairys tarot will say.......only four more till me lol!!! Natalia xx

Natalia, I really hope everything will work out for both of you. Is there no British sort of society you could join for some support and help in finding the things you need. Thinking of you. love, Sue

Thanks Sylvia, Ita all there, we just need to get out of limbo land and get it done, Natalia x

Good luck Natalia , you know I have thought about you constantly, all you can do is try. Take care babe you know where I am xxxxfrom Hatpin x

Good luck Natallia hope thing work out well for you both Howardxx

natalia i would give it time.give it a go for you and hubbys sake.i hope it all works out for you bothxxxxxxx((:

Hi Natalia, I really hope that things go well for you. Jill xxx