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good luck sweetheart xx

Thanks again everyone. I am feeling much better now. I called head office yesterday to ask about a reference, seems they don't give them out anyway, just confirm that you worked for them and the dates, so that's not going to be a problem for me. I then filled them in on all the dodgy things that are going on, and the serious health issues and bullying and they are looking into it. I have been told they will get back to me, but i won't hold my breath! It made me feel better to get it off my chest and who knows maybe they will keep a closer eye on stuff and the other staff will benefit as a result. I spent last night trying to sort out a CV as i have an office based job to apply for, it's really hard trying to make something out of nothing, lol, but it goes in the post later when i go out, so i am hoping someone will see through the waffle and give me a chance........but in the meantime i have plans to walk plently and re-aquaint myself with the housework lol. Yvette

Yvette, I am sorry that things didn't work out, perhaps when you have returned from the Pink trek life will be on an upward turn. Good Luck, love, Sue

Hi Yvette, I'm sure that it was their loss. Turn it to your own advantage and go out there and get something that you enjoy more. Good Luck. Maggy

That will teach them to mess with you, lol. Now put your glad rags on an go and find yourself a job that you will be happy in. you have proved to yourself you are well capable. Good luck. Shirley Ann.

Yvette, I can only echo whats been said already - you'll find something better, and its their loss. Take Care Paul ((hugs)) xx

They obviously didn't deserve you hun - there must be something much better waiting out there. At least you can use your time now for research and training! Maz. XX

Morning Yvette, sorry to hear about your job, hope you find something a lot better soon, you don't need that hassle!. Take good care, Chris :)

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Arghh, sorry to hear that Yvette. I remember you saying how much you were originally looking forward to the challenge, and if memory serves me right, I think you had just started when we were down for the London Eye ride. Look at it this way, if you really weren't happy then had you stayed your confidence could have diminished further. By coming to the conclusion now that things didn't feel right then hopefully you give your confidence a chance to recover more quickly. Hugs, Andy x

Mega Mags Hug coming your way! (Lumpy but quite comfortable!) Good for you! I walked out on the job I had been in for 11 years - burnt out and stressed to explosion point. I wish I had had the guts to leave before. Well done you! Money isn't everything, your sanity is! Value yourself - You have good cause to. Love Mags xxx

For the best then Yvette the job wasn't to be. Need to be relaxed and enjoy what you are doing. Something better is probably just around the corner. Good luck ((((((hugs))))))Pat x

(((((((HUGS))))))) it's their loss Yvette

It's their loss, Yvette, not yours hun. Remember that, and the fact that you stood up to the bullies. x

Oh babe, new year, new start! big pink positive hug!! xx

You can have as many hugs as you'd like you lovely lady!!! I'm so sorry the job didn't work out but I'm sure the right job will come to you in the end! Sending you loads of hugs and love to one of the loveliest ladies on here! Love becxxx

Thanks everyone, you are all lovely, and the hugs really help, and Daisy...that sounds like a good idea, maybe we should pick a few dates to try and meet and walk. We never did get round to the weekend all get-together for a pre-trek walk.........

i got plenty of hugs to give

Yvette - it's most definitely their loss but the main thing is for you to be happy in yourself and for the family. Of course you'll miss the money but your confidence shouldn't be dependent on paid employment and I'd like to see any of them attempting what you're doing this year. Enjoy the freedom and work those calf muscles!! lol If you fancy a day or two out walking let me know! Huge Hugs ((((XXXX)))) Daisy

Yvette sweetie, It is their loss. You are a really lovely young lady and I am sure you must have been really stressed to walk out. The ice was broken when you got that job. Shoulders back, best foot forward, go girl. You can do it. Think what you are tackling in March. Jean x.