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Sending you big fat hugs again and telling you to pack his bags for him and leave them out ready for Friday - stand up to the b*st*rd and make him realise just what he is walking away from. xx

Julie Anne. I'm so sorry to hear this and shall be thinking of you and wishing you well. Sue

Hi Julie, when I split up from my ex it was like my life began! Hope it can be the same for you. Love Jack x

Hi Julie Ann - was catching bits off threads this week and guessing something wasn't right for you. So sorry this has happened to you, but stick up for yourself, don't let yourself be walked over, and if he isn't going to sort himself out and treat you right then best rid of him. Hard at the moment but in a few months you will be more settled and content. Take care of yourself and be sure everyone here is rooting for you. You can always contact me direct if you need a moan or whatever. Thinking of you, Liz

julie ann try and look as if this is fate and was meant to be noooooooo im sory u must be thinking thats no help ot this moment in time be strong hold ur head up high and in time things will be ok [[[[[[[[[xx]]]]]]]] to you and your children

Julie ever so sorry to hear this, You not alone, a lot of women have been through this. Things happen for a reason and only time will give you the answer to that. In the meantime, take time to adjust to your wonderful, new chapter that is to begin in your life. always remember, he has lost something good and will never get anything as good as that again. Positive thoughts being sent to you :-)

Sorry to hear what you're going through. Look on the bright side if you can ~ you have to smashing kids, who by the sound of it are supporting you. It's always greener on the other side etc, etc, it's his loss, take care, Claire x

Julie Sending you and your children a big hug ((((((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))))) Julie

Hi Julie Anne, so sorry to hear your news, I know how you are feeling - this time last year I was in exactly the same position as you. Well, I am still here to tell the tale, can't say it has been plain sailing, but (as loads of people sed to me at the time) what don't kill you makes you stronger. Good luck hun. Maz. XX

hi julie, it's not the weekend yet, he has time to think what he's been putting you through, he has time to remember that it was you that saw him through his long illness, and mood swings....not her!! but! from this day onward, you are not 'second best' the rule book is in your hands, spell them out to him, and be prepared to say TAKE IT, OR LEAVE IT. best wishes matey....bryan xxx.

Julie I walked out on my husband after 17 years (married 8 of those) and I have never looked back although I have to say it wasn't easy - it was the best thing I could have done. There wasn't a 3rd party involved but it was still a hard decision. I wish you all the very best Julie. Debby

Julie just read why he didn't want you to shout well I am sorry but he is so lucky you didn't hit him with a frying pan as it is what he deserves and you have every right to be angry my ex would have got a thump if I knew before I left him but I didn't find out till 1 year later. You have lovely kids telling them what they think hope they keep it up

Julie Anne, I am so sorry, I wish I could sprinkle some fairy dust on you I really do. Liz x

oh julie anne. i just read thread 19! my heart goes out to you and your children (big 'word up' to your son.) kids always find the right words to say dont they. dont forget to give them the snuggly hugs from me ((((hugs))). but most of all....... be good to you. xx

Julie Anne, Just think of you and the kids,b****r him. ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Big Hugs for you))))))))))))))))))))))) Sue

Well she can't be that innocent if she has a husband and kids of her own. She played with fire and got burnt. In my personal opinion she doesn't deserve sympathy. Had she been single and convinced he was divorced that might have been different. It will be hard adjusting after 20 years. But once you've adjusted, like others have said, I am sure you will feel better off. Angela

Sending you a huge hug xxhugxx

thanks guys the kids are wise son told him this afternoon hes being a p***k well he did ask for sons opinion for those who didnt know, i had suspicions, got his mobile and checked there were texts from her, so i text her back and asked how long, since september theyd been chatting, never got closer than kissing,!! thats thoughtful, told her wed been married 20 years i think that floored her to be honest she thought we were divorced, i hope she can get on with her life with her hubby and 3 kids, they dont know, how ever ive been a complete mug, taken in , spat out

So sorry Julie Anne......sending you big hugs...XXX BC

Julie Anne, Sending you a big (((((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))) Love Suzy :o) x