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When do you think is the right time?

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Dawnieher3headaches

Dawnieher3headaches Report 23 Mar 2006 12:32

Steph I knew after 3 week that he was the one for me. Got engaged 6 months later and faced a lot of opposition they said it wouldn't last. In a few weeks we will of been together 20 years married for 19. Lifes too short , only you know if it feels right, go with instinct.

Stephanie

Stephanie Report 23 Mar 2006 12:31

thank you ladies, am sitting here with huge grin on my face. We dont want a long engagement, as soon as the question is popped we wanna start arranging straight away! So choose your hat ladies lol...Lucy, what colour are your eyes? hehe xxx

Stephanie

Stephanie Report 23 Mar 2006 12:30

aww Diana im so pleased you said that! I remember how worried you were when i met him and moved in with him...im chuffed now lol! What scares us is all the worry about having enough money for a baby, cos to be honest we dont even wanna wait till we are married till we have children cos we just love them so much...but maybe it is the best thing to do xx

Lilly the flower

Lilly the flower Report 23 Mar 2006 12:30

I also agree, if it feels right...'GO FOR IT'....lol.....he might not ask you again, (only joking) as Pink says life is to short.......good luck...and be happy.......Lilly xx

HeatherinLeicestershire

HeatherinLeicestershire Report 23 Mar 2006 12:30

If it feels right do it!! I met & married my hubby within 8 months, 22yrs ago. It's not the time scale it's how you both feel about each other. Heather x

Unknown

Unknown Report 23 Mar 2006 12:29

Age doesn't come into it. If you know he is THE ONE, then he is THE ONE whether or not you are 21 or 91 !!!! Go for it. You are the only ones who know how you really feel. I hope it all works out for you xx

Lucy

Lucy Report 23 Mar 2006 12:29

ps...what colour hat do I need? LOL!! X

Lucy

Lucy Report 23 Mar 2006 12:28

Only you two can answer that hun - but if it truly feels right then do it!!! My dad said to me...imagine it at its very worst - and if you still want it go ahead!! Good luck! Lucy x

PinkDiana

PinkDiana Report 23 Mar 2006 12:28

life's too short to wait for good things!! If it feels right then BL**DY DO IT!! :O)

Stephanie

Stephanie Report 23 Mar 2006 12:26

Or is there ever a right time? Aaron and i talk all the time about getting married and having a family, but recently we have been talking more and more about it until last night he sat me down and said that he doesnt want to wait as long as we first said we would, he knows i dont really want to either. We had a proper look at some engagement rings (although he wont give me a clue as to what he is planning or when for!!). We have been together 13months now, living together for a year, we are both 21 this year and although we are young it just feels right to us. What do you think?xxx