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Im getting angrier and angrier, i dont think i can hold down this temper and if i dont im gonna end up hadingin my notice in now, i gotta calm myslef down which is why im writing this, I am SICK to death of being spoken to like im an idiot. Yes i find it hard to understand certain things but how dare people make me feel like Cr*p for it, i feel like a right idiot and im so angry that people talk so down to me. I dont have any qualifications in maths, im not qualified in Accounts, it was their choice to place me in this job so why the hell do they speak to me like im a tw*t when i cant or dont understand something, seriousley im two beats away from telling them to shove their job

Hang in there - don't let them get to you!!! ((((((hug))))) Sharon xx

sorry for the language

and another thing, anopther girl ios leaving due to the bitchiness in the office...it was reported and only made worse, how can people get away with it, sod it i think im just gonna do it now

You sound a little peeved Steph lol How are things going with the employment agency have they not found you anything yet? Are you only signed to one? Hope things improve soon sweetie Julie xxx

No. STOP< think of the implications . aggro = rent money = living with Aaron Grief = a living = a means to buying food stop and calm down a bit girl. A) you cannot afford to walk B) you'll wind youself into an asthma attack yes its hard. smile sweetly and bite your words get yourself a nice samdwich and go and sit somewhere green , and chill for 15 mins, feel the wind in your hair and just chill you'll feel better for it Jess

See cos i cant smack one of them im sitting here crying, this is what happens when i get so angry, im so depressed here, i came so far after coming out of hospital and coming off the pills and now doctor has put me straight back on them and i swear its to do with work. Ive applied with loads of agencies, call them all the time and nobody is taking me, i havent even had any interviews. Just feel like things are getting worse and worse and theres nothing i can do x

Steedie,all due respect to you, but after what you have said it seems to me that you were 'Overpromoted' i/e doing a job which you find difficult to do.Do not despair,if you decide to go,tell them you may well sue them for 'Constructive Dismissal' .A certain Police Officer in Royal Protection did because he was, Quote' Overpromoted' for his Qualifications.So hang in there,perhaps the threat alone will stop the aggro. Hal.

and what i said about smacking someone, i learnt to stop doing that years ago, so im not a violent person, was taught to let it out in other ways x

i know how you feel i was like that yesterday, i was off work Tuesday because i had a bug and came back yesterday to a snotty email from my boss. who needs it

Left message on your phone! Julie xxx

Thank you, LL, its guys talking to me like it and they are over in another office, its done by phone/email, the bitchiness is whith the girls downstairs.. Jewels, sorry hun cant pick phone up will get in trouble if seen, thank you for phoning though.. Harold, thats a great idea, but i would just be laughed at. Cos im the youngest in the office (20) im seen as a child who doesnt know any better, even though ive been here over two years i still get spoken to like rubbish xx

LL no, there isnt any union reps, HR is a big no-no. The office manager is also a huge No-no, i just cant see any way out xx

DONT CRY! visible sign that they are getting to you, dont let them see it have you had a lunch break yet ? right , get yourself out of the office for 10 mins and clear your head

Have you tried the direct approach? 'I know this must be irritating me keep asking you questions but could you be just a little less condescending? After all, we are all grown ups here aren't we?' Failing that 'Oh **** off' works for me, then strop off home and get a doctors note and write into the company head office telling them you are being bullied! Julie xxx

Blimey girl, think you should be telling them this not us. Lin

i know i should be telling them but there is honestly no one to tell. My collegue has just reorted bullying and it was all dragged into the open and now she has just taken a day off sick cos of it all and wants to leave. Aaron would be so disappointed if i left without having somehwere else to go, i just feel so stuck in a rut. Pink took the time and re-did my cv for me and im trying so hard to get a new job just not getting anywhere. Just popped out for a fag, but better get back to this work otherwise its just gonna pile up! xxx

What sort of job do you want?

Im accounts assistant at the moment bec, im looking for accounts administration, accounts assistant/junior, where they know i am willing to learn. Cos i am, i love learning new things, i am a brilliant all round team helper, id do anything for anyone and sometimes i think thats my problem!x

Just made me so angry reading this........ Dont let them win Steedie. Dont give your job up. God I hate people like that. What goes around comes around. Take Care Rosi