General Chat

Caz my thoughts and prayers are with Catherine and her children xxx(((hugs)))xxx And as for her sicko ex hubby, well I hope cancer never becomes part of his life!!!! how dare he Ann x

how nasty of him prayers and thoughts to catherine be strong love joyce from hollandxx

Hi Carol, firstly I am a man so can only imagine what your friend is going through, I really hopw everything is going to be fine for her, Give her my regards. regarding her ex, hes probably an A**e hole It would do him good to have to go through some of the things women have to go through.

Caz , my prayers are with your friend and her family.As for the no good ex , just goes to prove she is a d... site better off without him !!! XXX Kim xx

Thanks Hayley and Joyce, she is a lovely lady, would help anyone. her ex has been so malicious, even got social services to investigate her and shes a fab Mum. Ive put a note up at school asking for donations to have flowers sent,I just pray removal of lump and lymph glands works, Caz xxxxx

I told you about my friend Catherine a couple of weeks ago with breast cancer. Well she had her lumpectomy today, had to go to Kendal as no beds for a month in barrow,havent heard anything. I saw her yesterday AM and she is scared, her kids are being so protective. Sadly her ex husband who has been so nasty said to her 13 year old girl ' your Mum is probably putting it on' words fail me, God bless Cath love you, Caz xxx

Thankyou newby and Foggy how lovely to have a mans perspective is so lovely, I have experience similar with my ex, he lives in my town and when my 15 year old was in serious trouble social services asked for him to help for his sons sake, he shut the door and said he wanted no involvement, beyond comprehension, Caz xxxx

I can't put the words on here caz for what I want to say there is nothing worse than this, adults that divorce or split or whatever and use their children to get back at their EX. Scum and lowest of the low. Her daughter will realise this, she's not daft, then god help him. cos he will have prob ruined whatever relationship they had. I wish your friend all the very best and hope she will be ok caz.My sincere thoughts with her and her daughter. catherine xx

My best wishes to your friend Catherine hope all goes well for her. Mau xxx

Carol, what can one say, problem is, i just think men just dont reaolise what is involved in bringing up kids

hi mate how are you, what a mean thing to say.... hugs for your friend and her family lynn x

Positive thoughts and prayers for your Friend. xxxx

Caz, (((((((((hugs))))))))) for your friend Catherine and children i hope everything turns out o.k. for her . Hazelx

Love hugs and prayers for your friend. She's better off without that excuse for a man. Linda. x

Thoughts and prayers for your friend. Don't waste time or mental energy thinking about her ex, concentrate on her.

Thoughts and prayers for your friend and family - as for the ex she is better off without him. Love Mary xx

Thanks ladies, Catherine has done her kids proud, been a lovely Mum, worked as a nurse, i pray to God it hasnt spread, Thanks all, Caz xxxxx

Caz, do hope your pal Catherine's op goes well, and that her kids realise what a creep their father is. Not a nice thing to think of but hope Catherine has talked to the kids about who they would like to look after them if the worst happens, as it doesn't sound as tho their father is much cop. She needs to sort this out and get something legal set up, just in case, but I hope it won't be necessary and she comes through this to a better phase of her life. She sounds a brilliant Mum and a strong lady so I am sure she will be fine. Will be thinking positive thoughts for her and her family, and wishing all kinds of bad things to her ex lol Liz

She is home, resting, op went well, fingers crossed, Hugs Catherine, Caz xxxx

Go on Catherine - get well soon - good luck to your and yours - bless you x X