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Chrissies

Chrissies Report 11 Sep 2013 05:19

sorry not to have been around much this year but have had illness personally also with the illnessess of my husband which eventually caught up with him and he passed away in may this year it has taken me all this time to deal with all things associated with his death and my pension for now and honestly it has taken me all this time to open my tree because of my feelings towards all things so hope all associated with me through my family tree please accept my apologies friendship always to everyone chris read :-) <3

Tenerife Sun

Tenerife Sun Report 11 Sep 2013 07:59

Chris, take your time and there is no need to apologise for anything. There are a few people on here that have been through everything you are going through now.

Greiving is a long, slow process but you will survive it. My heart goes out to you.

Come on here whenever you feel you want to talk, it's sometimes easier to talk to someone you don't actually know personally. <3

Wendy x

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 11 Sep 2013 08:47

Hello Chris - welcome back - things are still very raw for you and will be for some time, but gradually things will ease - grief takes people in many different ways - talking on here to people who care may help ease the process. Many of us have been in your position and know what it feels like, so keep popping in to have a chat

Much love, Ann XX

<3 <3 <3

AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 11 Sep 2013 10:37

Chris it is good to see you back on here. I am so sorry to hear about the death of your husband and also your own illness.

As T Sun says take your time, grieving affects everyone differently and you need time to adjust.

There are many people on here who will give you up port hen you need it. Come on here when you need a chat. <3

BrendafromWales

BrendafromWales Report 11 Sep 2013 11:56

Yes,it is nice to see you back.
I have found loads of support since losing my husband 2 years ago
It takes some adjusting to a life alone,and initially there are so many issues that are to be addressed that it is hard and time consuming.
It does get a bit easier,but you may find that talking to your friends on here goes a long way to adapting to a life again.
As others have said,come and have a chat ,there are a lot of nice people on here.

Nolls from Harrogate

Nolls from Harrogate Report 11 Sep 2013 15:32

Chris don't think we know each other but sending you sympathy on the loss of your husband and hope your feeling much better in yourself. The secret... do everything in your own time don't get harassed if things don't get done and remember you need time to grieve <3

Mersey

Mersey Report 11 Sep 2013 18:31

Hi Chris and welcome back.....you have my deepest sympathy to you and yours.....

<3 <3 <3

Linda

Linda Report 11 Sep 2013 19:38

Welcome back Chris, has everyone has said grief takes people in different ways take care. <3 <3

Elizabethofseasons

Elizabethofseasons Report 11 Sep 2013 23:23

Dear Chrissies

Hello


A very warm welcome back to you.

Always pop in when you want to.

There are many kindly folk here.


Take gentle care
Lots of good wishes to you
Elizabeth, EOS
xx

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 12 Sep 2013 07:09

Chrissie, my deepest sympathy on your sad loss and for all the troubles and worries you have had to deal with recently. I hope you will find strength to get by but remember you can always offload on here and there will be someone around to listen and offer a cyber shoulder.

Take care of yourself, treat yourself kindly

Lizx

'Emma'

'Emma' Report 12 Sep 2013 11:53

Hi Chris don't think we've spoken before.
Welcome back....and my deepest sympathy
on your loss.

Emma

Janet

Janet Report 12 Sep 2013 13:33

Hi Chris, not sure whether we have 'chatted' in the past but welcome back. I am sure everyone understands your absence. They say everything has its time, and perhaps now is the time to come back to the 'fold' and share your memories and thoughts. Take care- jl