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He's got you too well trained bless you!

Lizx

OH has just had to go downstairs because Fred was shouting so he must be in distress.

He will learn more of distress if he comes that one too often!

The old bugger wanted a cup of tea!

I quite agree with what you say Mersey. ~ ~ ~ ~

No choice. The big foot came down from the sky and there I was.

It gets my washing and washing up done too!

I would have to go to work if I wasn't doing this anyway and I never did like work much.

Sharron told you before and I will tell you again it take a special kind of person to do what you do and have a sense of humour with it you are such a lovely person with one great big heart of gold <3 <3 <3


~~~~~ Tenerife Sun :-) <3

It wouldn't be a break for me really.

I spend the night listening anyway, if a gnat farts up the garden I am awake and ready to do whatever.

It rarely happens but I still listen.

I he or I were away I would still be switched on.
The one night he did have to spend away because we had no power I did sleep well but he didn't and he was out waiting for the bus to come home at the first opportunity, Even before he had finished his glass of sherry they gave him with his lunch.

Is there anywhere he could go for a few days to give you a break?

As I have explained before, he was sent home to die because he was making no progress in hospital

That was six and a half years ago and he hasn't had time yet.

Fred will be ok when he's had his sausage sarnie and before the church lunch.

Sharron you maybe are coiled like a spring but even springs windback down..

Deep Breathing may help.

Your an Angel for what you do for Fred. <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

He sounds like a bloody miracle and so do you....as TenerifeSun says...your threads are funny too:)

jude

He is 93 as well, and in an electric wheelchair.

Sharron...sorry l obviously did'nt understand about the speech problem, nor the hearing aids!!....look forward to hearing how it all goes:)



jude

Sharron...sorry l obviously did'nt understand about the speech problem, nor the hearing aids!!....look forward to hearing how it all goes:)

jude

Sharron...sorry l obviously did'nt understand about the speech problem, nor the hearing aids!!....look forward to hearing how it all goes:)

jude

Wound up like a clock spring most of the time.

Your threads are brilliant but what you are doing for Fred is fantastic Sharron. Without you pushing him he wouldn't be doing anything for himself. You must be exhausted at times.

His friend will go with him.

It is booked, 14.30 on Tuesday.

You don't understand do you? the important thing is to avoid making a decision in case it is wrong. Then you can adopt the high ground to judge whoever was landed with the job.

He didn't used to be able to go on the bus until he tried, or into Wetherspoons, or to the sausage sandwich provider or the café.

Could he go himself and take a note from you to be produced only if he finds he can't hope with asking for his appointment. Or could his friend go with him and do the talking.

He lost his speech when he had the stroke.

It is considerably better now but he still gets his mucking firds wuddled and he won't use the telephone because he wears hearing aids.

They have been known to go in without an appointment but he feels more secure having one and then I know what I am dealing with.

They don't seem to need an appointment for Wetherspoons!

l hope you are serious about this Sharron, he's perfectly able to catch a bus etc etc, so he should sort his appointments, especially as he can go into the opticians in town!!!!

jude :-)