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But could i have your surpport to help me get thru the day,we are saying our final goodbye to Jans uncle who is getting buried today at 1.30 but im in so much pain i can hardly walk, but i have to be there at Jan my hubbys side. as all the familys will be there im just hoping i can make it thru the service,dont have to walk far as church is facing our house on the other side,
I would like to thank everyone who add to the thread i put up ,when jans uncle passed away ,thank you
Dutch

Hello Dutch

You have my paryers and thoughts with you today as will the rest of your family.
I have seen messages from you on several threads I follow and know a little about you and your determination shines through.

Gid bless and condolences to you and your family

Bridget

Hi Dutch,
I dont really know you yet as Im fairly new to boards but my thoughts will be with you today at 1.30.
Kind regards
Cath

Hi Joyce, I will be with you in spirit holding your hand. I know how much this means to you to be there, but remember, you can only do so much. Don't forget your painkillers will you, I know your memory at times of stress, lol.

Caz xx

Thinking of you Joyce and sending thoughts that you will have the strength you need. Take a strong painkiller just before you go.

Will be thinking of you Dutch and ofcourse Jan and all the family.
And I agree with Caz - you must take care too
Love Mary xx

Thinking of you Dutch, take care.

jude xx

Hi Dutch
Will Hold You And Jan And Your Uncles Family
In My Thoughts And Prayers Today
With Caz I Will Be Holding Your Hand In Spirit
Take Care
PP xxx

Thank you ladys my mind is not with me today ,ive just gone and paid two months rent instead of one 891,26 euros,i have phone bank but they said cant gie it back i have to phone the housing ,so did that she was,nt going to give it to me, but i said i made mistake on the internet ,so there going to put it back on the account on weds,Jan is going to have afit over it ,but i cant remember somethings these days
And would just like to add it means alot knowing my friends are there with me thank you
Dutchx

P.M.sent joyce

love Jean xx

Hi Dutch
Thoughts and prayers to yu and Jan and family

Liz

Hi Joyce,Ive only just logged on so you will probably be out, best wishes and hope you manage to get through your sad day without too much pain.

If Jan shouts at you for messing up your rent payment,tell him to do it himself in future ,from Nina in Sheffield,xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi Joyce

You take care, hope you have been able to attend the funeral and can get back home soon to rest.
I hope the service for Jan's Uncle went as well as these things can and you can all feel comfort that he is now at peace.

talk with you later
hugs,
Lizxxxx

First of all thank you for your surpoort ,there were no saddness no tears just the daughter reading about her Dad,which made some of the people smile and Oom Wims brother sang Ava Maria and hes in his 70,s but it was so moving,but i was in alot of pain with my spine so we did,nt stay long after going for coffee and paying our respects to the family we came home,this is short verse
It makes me sad when friends i know
Are hurting so much inside
And holding back the pain and the tears they try to hide
For if its the pain in you body we can see
But when its in side we cannot see
But in the inside we don,t show it for all to see
I have to say this to my friends
Just get in touch your not alone
I can,t do much with the saddness you feel inside
But at least you,ll know theres always someone you can tell ,and know need to hide
So my friendnnot much more to say
Just live your lives day by day
For whats life has in store
But one more thing before i go i will nver turn my back on friends and people i know
have agood weekenk and all take care
Love Dutchxx
ps have pm you Stepen

Dutch....thats lovely:o))

Sorry you were in so much pain.
How brave of that man to sing at his age in front of everyone.

Take care

love Jude xx

I'm sorry I missed this Joyce, I have not been on for a couple of days.

It sounds as if he had a lovely send off, and you all did him proud.
Deanna XX

Hi Deanna i like to think we did i was worried i could,nt keep it together ,but it turn out ok ,hope your feeling abit better take care my friend
Love Dutchxx