General Chat

evening every one
how have we all been today and who has been out shoping for christmas
not me cos mine is all done.

just sitting back now whating for father christmas to drop down the chimley
exsep i dont have a chimley so he will have to use his magic key

I pop in to see you all .? Thanks for the cards Jean and Marilyn. I have had a sleep this afternoon as I felt really ill but I feel a little better now. my friend got me some eggs and bread and some lemons when she did her shopping.this morning. so I am going to make a hot lemon drink now and before I go to bed to night.
Thank you for thinking about me.
my sister phoned and asked if I was alright ? my nephew flies over from the states he arrives at 10.at heathrow. he made me laugh. he is here for a about three weeks, in that time he is going to see his unversity friends who live in Norfolk for two days. then back to his mothers. then off to Italy to visit his cousins back home taking his Mum to a show for her birthday then a few days afterwards he is off to the conitnent on businewss then back to his mothers for a few days before he flies back home
I call him a flight hopper I dont know how he manages to do what he does
.I had a lovely Christmas card from him this morning he brought it while in Cambodia a few weeks ago it is a navity scene and made of palm leaves it is really lovely..

Rita

Marilyn and Rita thank you both for your cards, they both came today with a few other cards.
My doors are getting covered now.
Little likes to point at them and I tell her what the pictures are

Enjoy your afternoon.

Hope you are feeling better Rita

Linda :o) XxX

Stephen - life is not rehearsed. Go for it!

It's better to have regrets, if any, after the meeting than a lifetime of wondering what would have happened.

Jean thank you for your card, I received it in todays post. Love Mo xxx

Hi everyone.
Stephen, I can only agree with all who have said she was the innocent in all this.
But if she knew of you years ago, why has she not contacted you before now. You were the one in the dark. And life as YOU know, is very short.
Enough said, I will shut my trap now.

Rita, if you are still feeling poorly tomorrow, please ring your doctor.
You don't want to be poorly over the Christmas period.

Hi everyone

Rita, I was going to say the same thing to Stephen, put himself in her place so he can see it from both sides.

Stephen, remember that whatever went on between your dad and her mam, it had nothing to do with her, it wasn't her fault, she was just the innocent baby that was born.



Edit: If it was me, my curiosity would get the better of me, I'd have to meet her.

Morning all.

I guess I'm different..... I would meet her Stephen..... WHY ....because life is too short.
At her age !! its not as though you'll have much longer left with her .
Go on and bring a bit of Christmas festive time with her ....

Hows everyone out there ?????

Rita ....hows you today ? you had better get yourself back to normal its not like you to be poorly and down. I'll make you a nice cuppa (_)?. Cake @.
Oh by the way Rita I did get that Doggy bit !!! once I looked at my sent mail ..LOL

I feel FREE today ........nothing to do and nobody to cook for , so I'm going to take things slowly, but I have to pop to the hospital for a check up as usual.
think I might look around the shops while I'm out.....must keep my purse Zipped up ..LOL

The sun is shinning here and if you didn't know it was winter it would fool anyone into thinking it was summer . See the sun does follow me around !!

Off for me bath.....

Just a quick one to say hello to all. I am not too good this morning I dont know whether it is flu or just a virus? . so I am taking things easy and just answered my emails. but thought I would let you know why I am not on the thread.
I did read a little and Stephen about your half sister. whether too or not ? all I can say is put yourself in her position and you have your answer..

god bless
Rita

Morning all
Foggy here and looks a bit frosty too.
Like Maddie I won't offer advice on your dilema Stephen, very hard thinking time for you. Try not to let it worry you while at work.

All ready for Little to come for the next three days.

Linda :o) XxX

PS Hope the cold is easing Rita. Have a good day everyone

Morning folks,
Stephen only you can decide what to do for the best but give yourself a day or 2 to think about it all first and then make your decision.

Cold and crisp here this morning but at least its dry, going to get colder by the end of the week though. We had a lot less snow than rest of uk but it was enough to cause inconvenience and disruption. Can do without more!

Have a good day,

Cath xx

Good Morning All.

I hope everyone is well and warm.

Oh dear Stephen, what a dilemma. I am not going to try and offer advice, I think it is something very personal to you. You are right, it could swing both ways.

I too have found out something similar in my own family, although not quite so close. It is something I wonder about, but cannot bring myself to find out more, for fear it may ruin my opinion of said person. Very difficult. Maybe I will wait until someone tries to contact me.

HOWEVER, it is a dry, slightly warmer morning. The sky is clear. Weather forecast says the cold will return by the end of the week - what Joy.

Take care everyone, and keep well.

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Tea or Coffee

Porridge or Cereals. Scrambled eggs on Toast.

Morning all.

It's a different fella that is posting this morning.

I'm soul searching and having to struggle with very deep feelings of emotion.

Why ?

I found out last night about a Half Sister I never knew existed. She is getting on in years. I know she too is having to cope with the same feelings as me.

She also wants to know more about her dad . Information that only I can give her.

She knew about my family and had seen various postings in the local Press about us over the years.

What to do ? That is the BIG question.

Let sleeping dogs lie. Or meet with her and give her information that may calm her soul.

My mind will certainly not be 100% on work today.

Have a good day ya all !

its not my fault i had the cold first and you felt left out lol

well today was the last birthday this side of christmas
whent pezza hut for grandson 6 today bless him

Mo, how do you know I am a dirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrty gal. Who has been talking, was it Neil or David.

I have been the model of propriety all day. Gawd its boring.

Ah yes religion. Its a funny old thing isnt it.

I wear a crucifix that Kevin bought me for my 21st birthday. I do not take it off. I got married in it. Had the children in it. Got taken ill in it. Only took if off for the ops. My lovely Mum died 5 years ago. I bought her a cross about 30 years ago. I now wear it on the same chain at the crucifix.

I was in the jewellers the other week, and the conversation betwen two young bimbos went as follows.

To the salesman.

Could I have one of those cross thingies, with a little man on it, please.


WHAT.

Is it just me. Or was that potty.

I shall be going to bed in a minute.so dont write to much as it is a headache keep rolling back Lol

Marilyn did you check that Doggie.one.

Rita

I am still here I have been reading all you little coments since I was on last
My cough it is driving me up the wall.
I watched Strickly I knew Scott and Gavin would go off
and the X Faxtor I wanted Rebecca to win but Matt got it..

My Mums fathers family came from Somerset about eight generations so when we go to Western Super Mare next year we are going to Mells where the family came from and take some photos.
.Mums Mothers family came from Bonny Scotland Ross and Criomity and Perthshire. My Father came from Devon 9 generations of them, his Mothers family came from Shropshire 7 generations of them. so we came from far and wide.

Rita

Time for this wee fella to get ready for bed.

A little supper, shower, then off to the land of nod.

Early rise as usual........., hopefully.

Good Night Folks

Mommy,
Grasshoper is a strange book.
I feel asleep listening to the radio!
Off to bed now x

Hi Fiona
Welcome
Yes the little that I look after hardly sees any TV and I watch Cbb's with her occaisionally No comercials on there

I used to find that when mine were young you would get them what they had seen and asked for early so as not to miss out !!!! But by the time Christmas came they had changed their minds.OH well they got their original choice in this house.

Sleep well everyone

Linda :o) XxX