General Chat

While I agree in theory, I feel that sometimes some people get away with some pretty awful stuff and when someone does wade in and make a comment, snide or not, they are attacked and branded a troublemaker. So speak up, it is your right, but be prepared to be shouted down at times. Great sentiments and I do hope it works, Jill.
S

Hi everyone ~ Good for you Tina and very well said xxxxx

Just be yourself

I have been hanging around here for about 5 years.
The good times and the bad times come in cycles.
It has always been the same.
There was never a Golden Age of love and happiness on here!
There has always been backstabbing and people leaving - nothing unique about the present situation.

xxxxx mick

Well i am with you i get sick to the teeth.......with all the snide remarks against peeps, it is about time we stuck together.. there is more of the good ones on here..
if they dont like the funny,, hugs and positive thoughts dont look .. theres a few threads i dont like here to, i go to one i do... as ive only been here 9 months ,, im sick of hearing the nasty remarks.. but what gets up my back is.. about bring back old chat ..well this is all the newbies see back biting and its been going on before we came here...

so lets unite and get the chat back ..........fun and laughter ..........Jgee...

I did consider not renewing today because of all the back-biting. But then I thought - hang on a damn minute - I am not letting those bullies bully me off this site. As you have said, too many lovely people are going because of a few. About time we stuck together and started laughing again.

Tina xx

Thank you Huia - and don't just click on request review - wade in and tell them off!

Thank you Sue!

Ok, Jill

Point taken. I've been one of the silent majority for long enough. After all, I pay for this!

From here on in, you can count on me, for what its worth.

Sue

I never seem to see that nasty stuff otherwise I would respond or click on request review.

Huia.

Wade in and tell them all off for being so childish?

I've done that - not sure how much it achieves but happy to continue to do so.

If enough of us do it then it will make a difference ...

Jill

Good on you, Jill

So are we clear on what we mean?

I mean anything that is derogatory, in a personal way, of someone else.

I've personally seen loads of this, but have chosen to ignore it. Perhaps we should say that enough is enough.

Sue

I do try Sue - but you know how hard it is!

But yes, we'll keep at it!

Rally the troops!

Jill

We are of one mind, then, Jill

Perhaps the silent majority need to speak up?

Next time either you or I - or others of like mind - see (from a virtual distance) anyone engaged in this silliness, I vote we step up to the mark and challenge them.

Let's reclaim these boards - we pay for them

Sue

Hi Sue - yes - that's just it!

Jill

Hi Jill

For those who want to use these boards for silly threads and laughs - fine

For those who want to use these boards for a bit of discussion - fine

For those who want to use these boards to catch up on old friends - fine

For those who want to use these boards to throw insults at other people, create cliques, make snide comments - not fine. It's this kind of rubbish that has people ignoring this once-friendly place in droves.

Sue

Hear hear !!!!!

Come on people!

These boards are becoming so sad and despondent. I know there are some very good reasons for this and I fully understand those particular reasons but can we please bring back some of the fun.

Can we have some silly threads and some laughs? Can we make an effort to just enjoy ourselves?

Please?

Jill