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Kirsty

Kirsty Report 10 Nov 2008 22:52

Hello :)

I am quite new to this but I wondered if you could help me? When I enter people into my tree do I enter their maiden name or married name?

Thanks! Any other tips appreciated.

Kirsty :)

RoseoftheShires

RoseoftheShires Report 10 Nov 2008 22:55

you enter there maiden name lovie
Rachx

teesdale

teesdale Report 10 Nov 2008 22:56

you can enter both there will be records for before and after they got married if thats any help nice to meet you

teesdale

teesdale Report 10 Nov 2008 22:57

i've entered both and come up with matches am i doing anything wrong

RoseoftheShires

RoseoftheShires Report 10 Nov 2008 23:01

I think mostly its the maiden name used well anyway thats what I do maybe I am wrong lol

teesdale

teesdale Report 10 Nov 2008 23:02

we can't both be doing it wrong so we must be right

RoseoftheShires

RoseoftheShires Report 10 Nov 2008 23:04

I dunno lol we must be? Sorry Kirsty we aren't helping much

°o.OOº°‘¨Claire in Wales¨‘°ºOO.o°

°o.OOº°‘¨Claire in Wales¨‘°ºOO.o° Report 10 Nov 2008 23:05

I always use the name the birth was registered under ie maiden name

Kirsty

Kirsty Report 10 Nov 2008 23:07

He he, well I am still slightly confused but will enter maiden names for time being! Cheers :) Gave me a laugh anyway! ;)

teesdale

teesdale Report 10 Nov 2008 23:08

its nice to give you laugh not havin much luck elsewhere

RoseoftheShires

RoseoftheShires Report 10 Nov 2008 23:10

glad we made you laugh Kirsty lol we are like a double act

Kirsty

Kirsty Report 10 Nov 2008 23:12

I figured :) I think the key is to not take life to seriously, take me for instance, I SHOULD be cleaning the tile cement off from round my bath, however instead I am searching through a rather addictive site looking for long lost relatives :) MUCH more fun! Thanks again :)

RoseoftheShires

RoseoftheShires Report 10 Nov 2008 23:17

anytime x

teesdale

teesdale Report 10 Nov 2008 23:18

your welcome

teesdale

teesdale Report 10 Nov 2008 23:34

hows things going

Jill 2011 (aka Warrior Princess of Cilla!)

Jill 2011 (aka Warrior Princess of Cilla!) Report 10 Nov 2008 23:39

Techincally, you enter the maiden name. On the tree that you can keep offline (I use PAF) there is a space for "married name" which helps.

If most people enter women by their maiden names that's where the matches will come from. I am quite suspicious of any tree I see that has the wife entered under her married name. It makes me think that the researcher is either not taking it seriously or does not care about the female lines.

Also, what if she marries more than once? Then what would you do? One of my trollopes of a gr gr grandmother married twice and nearly married three times. I'm still interested in her - no matter who she married as she is my gr gr grandmother. So in effect I have no option but to enter her under her maiden name. It's logical.

Jill

teesdale

teesdale Report 10 Nov 2008 23:41

i was thinking of death records which would have married name on

Sue in Somerset

Sue in Somerset Report 10 Nov 2008 23:45

Women in family history should, as Jill said, always be entered under their maiden names.

In early genealogy people rarely stayed married to the same person for their whole lives. If you ever get to do any medieval genealogy you will see that death from battle, illness or childbirth meant many marriages for many people. So on family trees females always keep their birth names no matter how many husbands they may later have.

Sue

teesdale

teesdale Report 10 Nov 2008 23:48

unfortunately i'm new a this an have not studied geneology

Jill 2011 (aka Warrior Princess of Cilla!)

Jill 2011 (aka Warrior Princess of Cilla!) Report 10 Nov 2008 23:53

No worries Bambi - it gets easier. Could be worth visiting your local library and checking out their family history books. There are quite a selection out there and it's worth having a read to see how others do things. Most of them seem to be written by "professionals" whereas the bulk of us on here are amateurs. Always worth getting the official line on these things, plus there will be all sorts of useful info in the books too.

I do know what you mean about death records - they don't make sense otherwise. And, I don't know about others but I follow all the lines in my family - women included. Some genealogists only follow the male line and just seem to ignore the women. Personally, I find that a bit odd.

I mean, you know who your mother is, and her mother, and her mother - but how can anyone be 100% sure of the male line? I trust the female line a bit more than the male line.

Does that make sense?