Is it me or is this a bit mean???UPDATED

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Member Since: March 2004 Posts: 6,452 Send Message	MaryinSpain	Report	29 Apr 2008 11:35
	Well I would be miffed too and would have to let them know. Love Mary xx
	Researching: Dunne, Miller, Evetts. Stringer. Green. Lewis
Member Since: September 2007 Posts: 1,324 Send Message	Hoobity	Report	29 Apr 2008 11:35
	I would be upset Catherine, and next year I wouldn't go if I were asked, but thats me cutting my nose off to spite my face, lol. shirley.x
Member Since: March 2005 Posts: 11,773 Send Message	MrDaff	Report	29 Apr 2008 11:29
	lol Catherine... something must have happened when I altered my first name on my account a couple of days ago.. still not right, but looks ok! Actually, I have revised my advice, lol I think I would send them a a bill, showing them what discounts they have received as family... and make certain that the costs of £18.00 admin are payable. The more I think about it, the cheekier it seems! Love Daff xxx
Member Since: March 2003 Posts: 16,903 Send Message	Catherine from Manchester	Report	29 Apr 2008 11:21
	I wondered what it was-lol thanks daff and caz c xx
Member Since: March 2005 Posts: 11,773 Send Message	MrDaff	Report	29 Apr 2008 11:21
	ooo errrr... what has happened to me name? I've lost stuff!! Love Daff xxx
Member Since: June 2006 Posts: 18,043 Send Message	Cumbrian Caz~**~	Report	29 Apr 2008 11:16
Member Since: June 2006 Posts: 18,043 Send Message	Theres nowt so queer as families hun is there? I'd be miffed too!! Caz xxx
Member Since: March 2005 Posts: 11,773 Send Message	MrDaff	Report	29 Apr 2008 11:15
	Hi Catherine, yes, I think it was a bit mean especially with your OH doing work for free for them at the moment. I think I would be tempted to send them an itemised bill of the work he is doing... and be sure to let them know on that bill that the work cost x amount, but no payment required as they are family... if they don't feel their conscience prickling and re-imburse your money for the do.. well, don't do anything again for them as a favour.lol Love Daff xxx
Member Since: March 2003 Posts: 16,903 Send Message	Catherine from Manchester	Report	29 Apr 2008 11:09
	thanks Shirley-I wouldn't mind but the work OH is doing would cost about £200 to anyone else. I am very upset c xx
Member Since: January 2003 Posts: 49,504 Send Message	Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it	Report	29 Apr 2008 11:03
	I would be very miffed. Well you know what to do the next time they want work done. give em a quote and dont do it for free.
	Researching: Surname Fahse. Germany. Essex .South East London My avatar is one of our wedding photos of 1957
Member Since: March 2003 Posts: 16,903 Send Message	Catherine from Manchester	Report	29 Apr 2008 10:58
	Was invited last month to OH's Aunty's annual company dinner, got the invite and saw I had to pay £18. My OH's cousins partner was also invited and she didn't pay-She told me a week before the doo that she wasn't happy I have had to pay as I'm family, and that they would be giving me the cheque back the night of the doo- The doo arrived and nothing was said and no chq given-so I just assumed they were a bit embarrased about it and just decided to rip the cheque up-I wrote it on the 13/3. the doo was the 28th. I looked online at my bank yesterday and the chq was cashed- The only thing that is getting my back up is my OH is doing some work for them-for free as they are family-Do you think they should have shown me the same curtesy and do you think I have every right to be annoyed? catherine xx

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