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M y dear Dad died 47 years ago in November and I wouldn't acknowledge that he'd died, it took me 21 years to come to terms with it, when I went to Mum's I made myself believe he was at work. It was at a Spiritualist Church Meeting that the medium brought him through and it was just like I'd only just lost him I broke down but could the accept that he'd gone, I hadn't been able to grieve at the time, having to organise things for Mum and brother and sister just went to pieces, so it was left to me. Mum died 2 days after his anniversary 37 years later, she didn't remarry or bother with anyone else, God love her.

Christine, Frances and I went to see Colin Fry on Saturday, he is a medium and he gave lots of people messages from their loved ones, some were very funny and meant a lot to the person left behind. At the end he said, keep your loved ones in your head and your heart and they will always be with you. One day you will meet your Dad again. One man came through and Colin said he has so many people here with him wanting to say hello and send their love. There were tears of laughter and sadness at the same time with the messages which goes to show there is more after death than we think.
Lizx

Hi Christine,
Sending hugs and thoughts for your lovely dad,
no one can take your treasured memories away.
he will always walk beside you x

your all so lovely and kind xxxxx

I'm sure your dad was very proud of you too Christine.

Our dad's are very special aren't they..................mine died just over 3 years ago now and I still miss him.

I have his photo in front of me while I'm on here and often glance at it and smile at him, or talk to him:))

xx

that's a lovely thing to do heather-:))))

christine there is the candle site on the internet-where you can lite a virtual candle for him-It's lovely and you can leave a message and the cyber boquet's will try and find it for you and carol B's page garden of memories.

I can't remember the addy but I'm sure someone will put it on for you.

Christine, dont know if you could do this - but today is my mum and dads anniversary. I have paid £10 to have the church lit up tonight with spotlights in their memory.

See if you can do something similar. Its a comfort to me anyway and Im sure mum and dad would be over the moon about it.

YOU KNOW I ALWAYS DREAD THIS DAY,BUT TO HAVE SHARED IT HAS MADE IT EASIER,I AM A PERSON THAT KEEPS MY SELF TO MYSELF,BUT TO HAVE READ ALL YOUR WORDS OF KINDNESS ...WELL ITS JUST BEAUTIFUL, BLESS YOU ALL
LOVE CHRISTINE X

((((((((((hugs)))))))))
to eveyone that has lost their dads
catherine
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christine your never on ya own love whilst you got friends on here!!!

Over 2 years since my darling dad went. He was a wonderful man, wonderful father and I miss him terribly every day. Like you Chris I was and am very proud of him - in fact thats the last words I whispered to him in hospital just before he went.

Yes my Dad was a smasher as well. He has been gone now 23 years but I still love him dearly, even though I am 'an old girl' myself.

So thinking of you, and your Dad.

Thinking of you and your dad today

as im thinking of mine

julia xx

To Dads everywhere who are gone but definitely not forgotton................my darling Dad included


Linda x

Thankyou Pink,It doesent matter that i am on my own,when there is such lovely people like you out there,

(((hugs)))

From someone who is proud of her Daddy too!

xx

THANKYOU CATHERINE, YOU WILL NEVER KNOW HOW MUCH THAT MEANS TO ME X

sending you a ((((((((hug)))))))
he sounds like a special guy.
catherine
xx

TODAY IS ANOTHER ANNIVERSARY OF MY DADS DEATH.
I WILL ALWAYS LOOK UP TO HIM,HE WAS SO KIND AND GENTLE,NEVER HAD A BAD WORD TO SAY ABOUT ANYONE,WORKED SO HARD ALL HIS LIFE,AND I MISS HIM SO MUCH.
DAD I LOVE YOU.
YOUR LOVING DAUGHTER CHRISTINEXXXX