General Chat

Thank you everyone and Gwynne sorry not a good time for you for me to put this up.

Now I am home its all hitting me and after feeling sick all day the headache has started probably cos I have used my brain too much today with all the thinking and am going to go and have a lay down and know that I will cry - dad always says Im the more emotional one of the family guess hes right, cant even face eating at moment.

Thank you for your kind words

d xx

Dawnie, I've been there twice. It's 10 years today since I lost my Mum after long months of illness and I lost Dad a month ago.

It's horrible to see but all you can do is be there for them and love them.

So many times Dad said he'd had enough but it wasn't his time.

I wish you and your grandmother the strength to deal with what is happening and what is to come.

Much love,

Gwynne

I've been through this with someone I loved. It is so hard to deal with.

Keep strong.

Love Sue xx

my heart goes out to you dawn

luv n hugs
stray
xxx

dawn (((hugs)))), i know its soo upsetting seeing a loved one fadeing away, wish her a peacefull release so she can be with her loved one..........
I know my grandad was there waiting for my nanna, ready to take her hand at that moment, just like it will be for your nanna..
all my love kaz xxxxxx

My heart goes out to you Dawnie, we went through a similar thing with my Nanna. It was so awful especially as she'd just beaten and won against cancer (She had a stroke caused by reconstructive surgery after throat cancer).

Dear Dawn

Wishing your Nan a peaceful release with dignity for her.
God Bless her.

Take care - Love & Cuddles to you
Steph xxx

Sending you a ((hug)) Dawn because I know how it hurts to see a loved one fade like this.

I hope she can be kept comfortable until the time is right for her.

Gwyn

Ah bless you it's so hard to watch and listen to them isn't it.

My heart goes out to you, you have to be so strong.

it's so sad seeing loved ones like that
my lovely aunt is the same,
my heart goes out to you
love chris x

broke my heart her telling us she wanted to die and how could she make the pain go away.
I spent the time holding her hand and she still had a good grip on her but she is just wasting away.
At one point she asked why there was a policeman sitting by her bed which was in fact me but as my top had stripes down the sleeves she must of thought it was a uniform.
Popped into her house on way back to use the loo and that bought the memories flooding back.

I just hope she gets her wish soon as she has no life or dignity left and the man that was the love of her life and who she has missed everyday for the past 12 years is waiting for her. Sorry if that upsets anyone .

d xx