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Oh God its never been a problem...he has never gotten angry ...I think it all comes down to trust ...after 15 years he knows I have eyes for no one ( apart from Ronaldo ) but him ,........

Hayley,see what you're saying & think they probably do.

Hayley - is it because as he thinks you're the best thing since sliced bread and he loves you to bits ... that every other man must feel the same way about you? I'm not sure if this is jealousy or not 'cos I don't really understand jealousy. Is it protectiveness? Or is he a bit insecure - 'cos he thinks you're the best thing ... ??

I have my moments like everyone else...lol

Thank you ...

Well,ive seen you on board before & think you have lot of good points im fact haven't seen anything you posted that i've dissagreed with.
Yet ! ~~~

WC.....what I meant is....if I was to flirt with someoe it would be to get their attention..."like do you fancy me ? now ask me out ".....but I have no interest in other men then my OH...so too me I am not flirting...I am just chatting....

Probably not, Wildcat - I'm not to everyone's taste:)) Hello:)

Thats good question too Hayley,i think lot depends on how confident or insecure the person is.
Hello,Uggers,dont think'spoken to you before

Jill, I think that's something both men and women do:) I've been hit on before my both sexes and never realised and then a mate has said well, it was your own fault:))

Don't some men see women flirting when the women are just having a natter and a laugh?

I've never lived with / gone out with a jealous type- even remotely jealous. My OH wouldn't notice even if I was flirting. Although he'd probably be right as I woudn't know how anyway!!

Maybe I have a lot of female stuff (can't remember proper word) in me cos I apparently do that:) Flirting can be a minefield.

Yeah see I don't realise I am doing but OH said I am and so have my friends....but its not too...I can't think of a word to say it..

Good question, Hayley. Probably a bit relevant too. I think they often do, although my OH is an excellent flirt and I've never realised someone's hitting on me til I get propositioned.

Do women and Men have differant ideas about whats flirting and what isnt ?

Sort of what I was typing at the same time, Jill:)

Hello Wildcat - I agree with that, I just think that if men are reacting badly to being scorned they often do so physically or obviously. In my experience, women more often seem to use their brains.

Good evening Rose:))

At the risk of sounding a bit sexist ... I think women can be more devious than men. Which can come across as cruel or nasty! I own up to having been particularly horrible to my ex-husband on occasions. I reduced him to tears once. But hey, that was his problem not mine. Was I being cruel or was I getting my own back? Dunno. Depends on your interpretation I think.

Jill

Thats a good answer Wildcat....and very true...

Oh I do like you! lol...you say it so succinctly...

and the answer is yes! lol
xx

Good question,but think both male or female have equal boiling points