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I am gutted, it seems like it is gone, I cannot believe it or understand whyXX.

Thank you Claire, the name will be put to good use, once I have calmed down!

Colin I've PM'd you a name that may be of use. If I post here the thread may get deleted.

Hello Gillian.......take care you have so many friends on this site.

Sue........xxx

if you ever feel you want to post on here about Stephen you go ahead.

you said it so well colin
i could never have put it in such a way
well done you,

to gillian i send my love ,

i adore my son, hes my baby no matter how old , hes 17 now, and i still say ok babes,
my daughter is like my friend, shes so grown up always has been, i adore her too
shes so much like my mam in many ways, strong, and determind,
i love my kids and always will
woe betide anyone who hurts um
and now my darling grandaughter, who has us all to protect her

i have to sign off here, cos i fear
that i will cry , at gillians sorrow, and that does her no justice, cos shes such a strong lady
keep fighting for your views gillian
we are right behind you
xx

I am very sorry to report that GR have confirmed that they have removed the thread. I have e-mailed them to ask why:

Hi

Thanks for your reply, please can you advise me why you have removed this thread and which T&C it infringed.

Also as already requested please provide me with the name and address of your complaints manager

Thanks

Thank you all so very much for your much appreciated love and support, these boards are so full of good people, it warms my heart.
Stephen was not a sporty person at all really. He was happiest around his family, but since he lost his little boy at nine weeks, he lost himself for a while, but he came bouncing back, and got his life back together, I will never know if he ever accepted his loss, but that is a silly remark to make, of course he did not, just like I cannot accept his passing. Bless you all for caring so very very much XX

My OH's was born on 6 May but in 1954. I will always think of Gillian's Stephen from now, on that day. God Bless them both.
Tina x

Have you gone to bed Gillian????

Kath

Hi Gillian,
Obviously you have gone to bed. I hope that you have a good nights sleep although I;m sure that you will dream about your beautiful boy.
Gillian, all I can say is, I'm sure Stephen is looking down from heaven above at his beautiful Mother with so much love in his heart, knowing you are doing everything possible to prevent this happening to anyone else.
With love in my heart
Kath
Ps. No doubt this weekend will be especially poignant to you

I seem to have missed what happened to the thread but feel for Gillian in her grief and sadness.
Lizx

Staffordshire Colin.
I feel so much pain in my heart for Gillian. She is such a wonderful caring person to everyone on these boards and is always there for everyone no matter what their problems are, even though she has endured so much heartache herself.. I take my hat off to you Colin, you have allways stuck up for what is right and done what your heart tells you to do.
I hope you have a posotive reply from GR & they can re-instate the thread & give Gillian back the support & love she so greatly deserves.
Thank you for reading this.
Kath

Thank you for trying so hard Colin

Have again contacted GR with regards to Stephen's thread:

Hi

I amongst other members recently reported a thread that had every other post deleted and the remainding ones left but totally blanked.

After initially being advised that it was as the result of abuse, you agreed that it should be passed back to your technical department.

Unfortunately no further contact has been received from yourselves and this is resulting in a great deal of distress to a a member whose son the thread was in memory of.

Can you please supply me with the name and address of your complaints manager in order that I may ask him or her to investigate this now very frustrating situation.

Many Thanks

Hopefully I have been polite (and not used the approach that my heart is trying to instruct my head to take) we shall await their response with interest. But we must not give up for Stephen or Gillian and her family

I think she must have gone to bed.
God Bless Gillian.
Kath

Hi Gillian,

Stephen was born 14 days after me.

(((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))

love T.x

Yes Colin, I agree.
Please Eveyone, lets be with Gillian tonight, she needs us!!!!!!
Kath

We do each and every night...The GR attitude to Stephens thread is unforgiveable

Where is everyone tonight?
Gillian needs our love & support now, she must be feeling low to post as she has done tonight.
Please all pray for her & send her positive thoughts.
Kath

what thing did he like to do gillian was he into motor bike or cars ? lilymoon