General Chat

Hi Malc
It is normal.................you are grieving and this is all part of letting go.
Think about the happy times and all the good memories will come to you and help you
Sue

I lost my dad last jan and my mum 6 mths to the day after him.They didnt live togrther any more so i had two houses to empty....... i still drive past both a couple times each week even though there are now new familys in them .I used to find my self sitting outside mums , it was the house i grew up in and held so many memories.
Time is a great healer and its only been a month.
take care
joy

You are grieving Malc, its normal to feel like that,
i used to ring my dad to tell him ther was something good on tv
took me ages to stop
Love Jackie

Bless you Malc it will take time. Took me months to move my Dads cap left it where he had left it for a long time.
Take Care
Germaine
x

It's normal. It all takes time :))

Marion

nothing wrong with you malc,
grief and just the mind,
helping you to heal

i had night mare other night i was arguing with mam
i was crying,
shed thrown photos of me in the bin
i dragged um out

god woke up feeling like wreck
thats 14 years now since mum gone from us

sending you hugs malc

I lost my dad last may malc but when I visit mum I still expect to see him sitting in his chair...bless him xx

Malc, you sound absolutely normal to me. I guess it's all part of the grieving process. After all, your Mum WAS sitting in her bungalow a little while ago, now she's passed on. It's such a strange situation isn't it. I'm dreading losing my lovely parents.
(((HUG)))

It's normal Malc..............I used to think that every car that pulled in front of my house was my Mum.........I even convinced myself I saw her once - your normal to think like this

((hugs))

its called memories, Malc. precious memories.

nothing is the matter with you - its just your mind sending out memories of good times

I think mums alive and sitting in her bungalow.....

Which I emptied with my sister a month ago