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Louis

Louis Report 21 May 2010 22:49

hi, i am looking for my dad called leslie marriott, he left when i was 3 years old, i am now 31 and would love to meet him to introduce him to hs granddaughter, he has tried to contact me before but unfortunatly the message didnt get passed on to me untill it was to late. he would be about 50 years old and from the wimbledon or carlshalton area of london. i have tried looking through the family trees and through electorial role and am a bit stuck now.
can anyone help

WayneTracey

WayneTracey Report 21 May 2010 22:51

Louis.

Was he marriaed to your mother?

Do you have any idea if he's remarried or has other children we could possibly trace him through?

We need to be able to find him accurately on records to be able to search for him accurately going forwards.

Tracey x

Louis

Louis Report 21 May 2010 22:53

i dont know if he re married or not. he married my mum in 1978 and then they split in 1981 and got divorced soon after. would love to know if i had any brothers or sisters out there too.

lou

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 21 May 2010 22:56

HI there - have you looked in Search Trees top of this page to see if there are any connections on this site - someone may have him in their tree and if they do you then have the option to contact the tree owner - worth a shot - good luck

Ann

Louis

Louis Report 21 May 2010 23:00

thanks ann, have looked in family trees and found a few of possibilities. i sent them messages a few weeks ago and havent had any replies.
hopefuly soon

lou

jax

jax Report 21 May 2010 23:05

Have any of them opened the messages meaning its not purple

Louis

Louis Report 21 May 2010 23:08

hi, i just had a look and only 1 out of 5 have opened them. very frustrating !

jax

jax Report 21 May 2010 23:10

they may not still have that same email address unfortunatly

have you tried facebook or friends reunted ?

Louis

Louis Report 21 May 2010 23:21

yes have been sending messages on face book to lots of marriotts to see if they know him as he isnt on there himself. there are no leslie marriots on friends reunited either.
I guess i will have to be patient !
thanks though

brummiejan

brummiejan Report 21 May 2010 23:23

Have you considered the electoral register? Jean has a thread on Records Office - you can't miss it, called "WHO ARE YOU LOOKING FOR".
jan

WayneTracey

WayneTracey Report 21 May 2010 23:29

I have already looked at the ER, and there isn;t anyone who sticks out, infact there isn't anyone in the London area at all that fits that name.

I am trying to look for marriages and subsaquent children for Leslie but A*try is playing games and is down at the min.

T x

Louis

Louis Report 21 May 2010 23:32

thanks for all your help. he is a leslie j marriott if that helps.
lou

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 21 May 2010 23:32

how about an ad in a local newspaper - newspapers like a human interest story

WayneTracey

WayneTracey Report 21 May 2010 23:44

Louis,

I know this is difficult, but are you aware of any other marriages at all, or possible children?


T x

patchem

patchem Report 21 May 2010 23:59

There are leslie j marriott's on the electoral register, just not publicly in the London area. Have you tried them all?

Louis

Louis Report 24 May 2010 21:27

we have found out this so far.
{we think this may be him!)

England & Wales, Birth Index: 1916-2005
Name: Leslie J Marriott
Mother's Maiden Surname: Hodges <<<<<<<<<
Date of Registration: Jul Aug Sep 1957
Registration district: Westminster
Registration county: Greater London, Middlesex
Volume Number: 5

i know he was married to a francis wildman (my mum) in 1978 in kent and we think that he has re married since then. if any one could serach forr any more info that would be great as i would love to know if he had anymore children since me !

any info would be really helpful

ps thanks zoe that was a great help

Click ADD REPLY button - not this link!

Click ADD REPLY button - not this link! Report 24 May 2010 23:02

The first order of business should be to add his name to your tree. I don't see it and neither will any relatives.

Looks like his parents ( your grandparents) are still alive and on the electoral register in Surrey.

Are you in contact with them?

Rose

patchem

patchem Report 25 May 2010 07:09

There are 4 marriages in ancestry for a Leslie J after his marriage to your Mother in 1978. When did they divorce? None of the marriages are in Kent.

Kathleen

Kathleen Report 17 Jul 2010 21:17

Hi Louis - there is a magazine called YOURS (it is a womans magazine) but there is a section where you can post a Where are you now message. You need to write and hopefully they will print it. I managed to find 2 lost first cousins via the mag - even about 10 months after it was printed. Someone my read it and know of your dad. Worth a try - never give up hope. Best wishes - kate