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Hugs Diana cos I don't know what I can say to you love (((()))) XXXX

Really sad news Diana My thoughts are with you Love David

So sorry about the loss of your dear father Diana. I know your pain, but what wonderful memories you must have, and as you say he made you as you are. Taking strength from that will pull you through. He will always be with you. Love Maureen X

Diana Was so sorry to hear about your Dad Julie xx

Oh Diana! As you said, at least he didn't suffer. Your daddy will always be with you in your heart. I'm sure your daddy would want you to know and would have told you what a wonderful person you are and how proud he was of you. Parents don't always tell us what they think and feel about us but I bet they would if they had the chance. ((((((((((hugs))))))))))) xxxxx LT

oh diana im sorry i just read this now, thats such a shock for you did he know do you think and kept it to himself to save you the worry, im glad you had that time together and you both made most of it, bless you diana, and hugs too xx

So glad your Daddy didn't suffer. Thinking of you. Anna x

I'm sure that you are looking at this the right way hun, treasure the time you had together and be very thankful there was no pain and suffering. ((((Hugs)))) for you. Maz. XX

Diana, from my own experience I know what you are going through. Life will never be the same but, with the passage of time, the grief and shock will turn to a loving remembrance. You are your dad's future. len

It must have been such a shock to hear this. Your time together with your Daddy alone was very precious and I'm sure that looking back on that time will bring happy memories. So glad for all of you that his passing was peaceful. Gwyn

Diana I am so sorry to hear of your loss All our thoughts are with you Mal and Yvette

Diana, Just don't know what to say. You and your Daddy were lucky to have each other, Linda x

Diana I am so sorry, you know you are in our thoughts and prayers. take care sweetie, lots of love janey xxxxxxxxxx

I have checked with the doctors here and in Great Yarmouth and there is NOTHING to state that cancer had been found at any stage on his medical records..... although the mother is saying that he has known for over 1 year!! 2 doctors are telling me that cancer was never diagnosed so I know who I believe! xx

and he always will be with you. condolences. Malc xx

The same thing happened with my Dad Diana. He had been to the doctors the night before with a cough and a pain in his back. Doc said it was a pulled muscle from all the coughing he'd been doing. He died the next day from a pulmenary embolism.......a cough being one of the symtoms! But when they did the post mortem, they discovered he had cancer of the kidney.........the pain in his back. Apparently when kidney cancer gets to the stage where you can feel it, there is usually very little that can be done. You were so very lucky to have hjad the last 6 months with him. ((((((((HUGS)))))))) Jeanette x

Diana, well one shock after another, you must be feeling wretched, but I am glad you can already be thankful for the time you had with your daddy, and it is good that he didn't suffer too much. I watched my dad die from lung cancer and it was awful to see a man such as he lose his dignity in front of his family, having to be helped on to a commode, fed by spoon, all those things and to see him at the end so confused by the medication for the pain. Take strength from all your happy memories and be proud of the person he helped make, the Diana you are and have become through his help and guidance. Take care, Liz

Awh Pink, gave my condolences already but am happy to hear that you are finding that the time you spent with your dad was worth it. When I lost my dad several years ago the one thing I always remember was kissing him and telling him I love him just hours before he passed. Then his response that he loved me too keeps a smile on my face at the weirdest times. Best wishes and big hugs to you Deb

Deb - thanks sweetie..... I have always been very lucky as Daddy always told all of us children that he loved us and I can honestly say that every day for the last 6 months he has told me at least once a day! I went to see him today which was the saddest thing I have evr had to do but again he told me that he loved me..... yes it was in my head but I know he would of said it if he could!! Mind you I also told him off for lying to me cos he told me saturday that he would see me on sunday!! :O) xx