General Chat

wow Malc I love Motorbikes. What sort is it? Get it built up you will meet loads of people at rallies. LL

Motor bike Lady L

is it a motor bike or push bike Malc?

Got a bike in the garage Gwen but it needs re-building

get a bike an go for a ride

One step at a time Malc. I'm sure your mum means well. I know mine,God rest her soul, was very blunt at times but I knew she just wanted to help, I'm sure your mum is the same xx

Hi Malc, I lost my Dad very suddenly when I was 21 and then had to face the reality of caring for my Mum as she had depression, MS and epilepsy, at that time, I was also working as a carer. Something had to give and I gave up my job to do something more 'selfish' I had to have a bit of 'me' time before I knew I could give 100%, I didn't realise how depressed I was until I had made that move. Good luck.

So Malc do yourself a big favour try to make an effort don't let your mum worry any more lets see a new you. you will feel so much better

No Beverly. it will be 26 years in December . Dad died the same day that John Lennon was murdered

LOL Malc. Plan B let me see.... erm any dog kennels near you? Volunteer as a dog walker. Walk neighbours dog?

my mum died when i was 4 my dad died when i was 23 so i know how you feel x x i have 3 children 1 who would like to stay awake all night and sleep all day, cant be bothered to wash or clean his room, now he works with his dad and he's so much better in every way but i nagged him to death cos i was so worried about him, i realise now he needed something to get up for. thank god he got it my worries are over i hope.

Malc, did you lose your Dad recently?

I asked her Lady L but she doesn't want one in the house so plan B. Just got to think what plan B is

you gonna try compromising with your mum for a dog?

I'm lucky as know my mum Valerie but lost my Dad when I was 21 but didnt know him that well till I was about 16.

yes mums do know best, i didn't have mine. but wished to hell i did. It's only cos she really really cares, night night

It's one step at a time Malc .............. daft as it seems try making yourself a time table ............. aim to be in bed for midnight at the latest and set your alarm for 8am .............. always aim for eight hours sleep regardless of the time you go to bed, any more makes you feel like everything is an effort .................. Don't expect to get the routine sorted all in one go, just a bit at a time. Give it a try it's amazing what a difference it makes .............. honest! ;-)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

we all love you malc x

You look after yourself, and listen to your mum, mums always know best.................. Barbara..xx

if malc gets home from work after midnight, he needs a couple of hours ' quality time ' before going to bed. maybe the answer is a change of job, easier said than done i'm afraid, but your obviously not happy malc, and they do say a change is as good as a rest. try setting the alarm for 9.30am and see how it goes for a few weeks, once you have had a wash, and a coffee, you should feel okay. bryan.