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In case he deletes, that is what my rant below is about Added by David Owen on 03/02/2007 15:59:46 Aren't you being hypocritical, Teresa? If you, Errol, Muffy and have left Lynda's thread alone last night, never mind all the insinuations that she was lying, there wouldn't have been all the ensuing dramas would there?

Excuse me David??????? Where precisely on Lyndas thread did I accuse or insinuate she was lying? How DARE you call me a hypocrite. YOU a so called church goer, who cannot practise the tolerance and respect taught you, YOU who told me I could not be trusted because I can speak to those who are civil towards me, YOU who accused me of trying to hound you off the boards, don't you DARE call me a hypocrite. And don't you DARE call me a liar or I will post the whole message on here! As I said earlier, those who embitter themselves with old news should move on. Shut up and go away David... Report me if you want, I need 8 weeks to get over my op....do it!

Believe it or not there are some who actually believe the board is NOT big enough for all. I have a PM a few weeks ago saying just that! Thank you all for your support in here and in PM, it's been a real boost, having felt so picked on lately just for being me. It's nice that at least some people recognise that I try to be honest and up-front, and reasonable. Some of you have reduced me to tears too... I will still be around for the next few weeks, 3 or 4 at the most, then I will look in before making up my mind. I won't make any promises but with the lovely messages I have had today, I might feel more comfortable with staying.

Joy, sadly from what I've seen since I've been a member on here 'respect' may be too big a word for some. However, there should at least be a level of tolerance and accetance that the world must still go around, and these boards are big enough for all. Or, is it too much to ask?

Quite right, just step daintily over the people you dont have anything in common with, or even dont like...well, it works for me:-) lol BC XX

now why cant i put it like that,tuts..............tony thats true,and for me i think after all this constant upset its the best way.i mean no-one has to be big buddies.just a respect among members on the board.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I agree with Tony on this one Linda, been thinking about a reply for a while. The point was made in my original post about some being unable to turn the page and move on, uanble to put things behind them. Putting things behind you does not mean they are forgotten, it just means condemning things to history, where they really belong. Keeping things to the front all the time can and will only serve to embitter people, and that kind of bitterness is often far more hurtful than the original deed they are so bitter about! Apologies make no difference then, no matter what. Move on, leave those alone who you feel are not your friends, respect others wishes, and get on with life.

Linda, with respect I have seen a number of apologies. However each time there has been a refusal to accept. I think it needs to be acknowledged that unless there is sufficient tolerance and a willingness to accept an olive branch, nothing will ever improve. Sad .......... but a fact of life.

Snow White, how thoughtful, thankyou, im sorry i didnt get to see them, but i do appreciate your concern, i will be fine now.xx Waves to everyone (got to have me afternoon rest lol.......)

Teresa, you know what you told me to do, keep posting the boards need you, well love the same goes for you. So you keep posting your threads on here, you are obviously a well educated person and I enjoy reading your comments and taking your advice, so keep it up. Donna, it's lovely to see you back on the boards and I sincerely hope that you are soon back in the best of health. My love to you both, Jeff xxx

Thought I would put it on here as nobody answered my thread Disagreements....Bullying....Apologies.. ...Groveling I have been on here a few months ago when we had discussions that got heated, but everyone agreed to disagree and folks went off the site and everbody spoke next day disagreements forgotten. Then came the bullying ......And that really soured the boards folks couldnt speak there mind as sooo many folks were into reporting or putting nasty things on sucess and the nice folks got banned for getting angry at these remarks . But there never seemed to be an apology.........Nobody ever said sorry for there wrong doing's so it has now gone from bad to worse where everyone is under a suspicion Groveling.... So if you know that you are the one that has caused anyone any hurt or heartbreak why not go cap in hand and say sorry. Take Care everyone Linda

Hi Strump nice to see ya hun :-) Rosex

Thanks Ladies. I shant dwell on it, past that to be honest, but if this sicko saw how distressed my family were last week, they may think twice (possibly). We are lucky, i turned the corner and although still poorly, will be fine,i hope the sicko never needs candles lit or any support from kind people on this site and believe me, you all helped my Mum with your support. TW....blinky well stay!! xx

Hi tw well said Hope your op goes well ,make sure you come back on here Rosex

I'm sorry Teresa---I forgot to wish you all the best with your op. I do hope you will stay on the boards---we need people like you xxxxx C xxx

Very well said--I agree with all that is being said here. I have thought for a long time that a lot of the problems are caused by peoples inability to move on. I also think there is someone--- or more than one---who is not involved in the argument that is taking great pleasure in stiring up trouble and then sitting back and laughing. Just my opinion for what its worth.xxxx C xxx

Added by ~~~Lesley~~~ . on 03/02/2007 14:34:20 Hoff - you will see me at the meet and on the other side lesley i think your coming the meet to meet me

Snow White, thank you for your comments, that has brought tears to my eyes. Please, dont' feel you can't get in touch if you ever need help. I'll always be here to listen, as I will for others. I'm no angel, but I do care.

Donna, Please be assured that your mum's integrity was not brought into question. The messages were also deleted very quickly before they could be seen. Hope you are feeling better :-)

Donna love, nobody knows what sicko did that, as nobody knows who did this one, but it is well over the top and nasty. I personally think it is one individual, who didnt' get a reaction last week, as it was kept low-key, so did it again this week and got what they were looking for. Such is life. Dont' dwell on it, just get yourself better, we're all here for you as you know by the huge support you have had this week. Keith....SHUT IT! I won't miss your mickey taking re. West Ham LOL