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trying to find my dads family and dads grave

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lesley

lesley Report 7 Mar 2012 10:28

hi there
im 20 years old, i know nothing much about my dad apart from that he was born in westminster london lived in sufolk and came from eastkil bride in scotland. his name Barry Donald Spicer. i think he was about 48 when he passed away.

i just need to know who i a, and to be able to tell my daughter about her famly history. my mum doesnt speak of him so i cant find any info on him from her.


id love to be able to visit his grave in scotland and just say bye to him and to be able to find any of his relatives.


any advive or any one that may have known him would be amazing.


thank you for taking time to read this


Lesley

x

lorraineakapuss

lorraineakapuss Report 7 Mar 2012 10:34

lesley welcome to genes, if you have his name and place of birth thats a good start , you can apply for his birth certificate or death certificate, which should give other family members on that.

DO YOU KNOW what year he died xx puss

Lynski

Lynski Report 7 Mar 2012 10:34

Related thread -

http://www.genesreunited.co.uk/boards.page/board/living_relatives/thread/1294123

EDIT - now deleted

lesley

lesley Report 7 Mar 2012 10:37

thats amazing thank you, i think it was 2002 but not 100% sure.

would that be somerset house where i apply for it? xx

lorraineakapuss

lorraineakapuss Report 7 Mar 2012 10:38

Thanks lynki x

Lynski

Lynski Report 7 Mar 2012 10:42

Certificates for England and Wales can be purchased from

http://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/


Flick

Flick Report 7 Mar 2012 10:42

He didn't die in England or Wales up to 2005

And please, lesley, don't post more than one thread per topic - GR rules don't allow it

How could he be born in Westminster but 'come from Scotland'?

Flick

Flick Report 7 Mar 2012 10:44

Name: Barry D Spicer
Mother's Maiden Surname: Boyle
Date of registration: Oct-Nov-Dec 1957
Registration district: Westminster
Inferred County: London
Volume Number: 5c
Page Number: 347 (

lesley

lesley Report 7 Mar 2012 10:44

my nan and grandad lived in scotland and i belive they were in london the time he was born

lesley

lesley Report 7 Mar 2012 10:45

thank you lynski

Flick

Flick Report 7 Mar 2012 10:47

You can't get certs for anywhere other than England/Wales from the site posted above

lorraineakapuss

lorraineakapuss Report 7 Mar 2012 10:50

www.gro.gov.uk

hi lesley its hard when you first start, we usually use this room for talking about anything as you can see, and genealogy for questions, the reason its best only to ask the same question once is it stops others looking when the answer has been found, your very welcome to chat on here to your hearts content, its nice to have a new face, i will pull up a thread if your new, you could chat amoungst us and hopefully get help alsong the way. xxxx :-D

Flick

Flick Report 7 Mar 2012 10:55

P&D

Didn't you notice the info that the man didn't apparently die in England /Wales.......so the gro is NOT applicable

lesley

lesley Report 7 Mar 2012 11:02

i only sighned upto this site yday so really dont have a clue what im doing, all im asking is for some advice or some help. if you dont like my thread then im sorry but im in a desprate state to find him, any advice given i will be so thankful and greatful but really dont know where i should be posting.

lorraineakapuss

lorraineakapuss Report 7 Mar 2012 11:04

oh and there are people who use this site have info on scotlands bmd, cant see anyother way of helping but since your so quick flick i will leave you to it :-D

LaGooner

LaGooner Report 7 Mar 2012 11:08

Some of the comments on this thread are enough to put new members off looking for help. Just remember you were new to this too once and try to be patient please :-)

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 7 Mar 2012 11:09

If he died in Scotland you need Scotlands People website which is pay to view,

For a death in 2002 you cant view the cert but once you find the ref on the site you order the cert through them .costs £10 each cert

Once you bought the birth cert , hope you took note of the ref ,then you will know his parents names and can look for them too on Scotlands People.

lorraineakapuss

lorraineakapuss Report 7 Mar 2012 11:12

lesley love dont worry, the reason i was asking for a year of death was so we could work out what year he was born, another way of doing it was he defitatley born in london, bare with me i am a bit slow memory probs, im sure someone will help, what you could do is delete this and ask on genealogy, there are lots on there that know what there doing, let me know if you find him good luck. :-D

lorraineakapuss

lorraineakapuss Report 7 Mar 2012 11:14

if im write shirley you get a lot more info on the scottish certicates.

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 7 Mar 2012 11:16

Yes Puss, Scottish certs give loads more info , births show when parents married as well as their names . Death certs show maiden name for a woman and certs too show where born , if the informant knew of course