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You could always cook them a nice meal just before you go visiting your family,Saying you will eat later,But Lace it with a very large dose of "Jollop" Just to keep them on their toes. **M**.Ps. OH. seems to be a right rear Orifice,xx.

Hi Tuna.

I've no advice further to what you are already doing really........lock it all away and bite your tongue if you can't cope with the aftermath of a row with her.

Must be an impossible situation for you.

Sending you lots of love and gentle (((hugs))) xx

no no no Tina doing nasty stuff makes you as bad as her-just learn from it-make sure all your stuff is put away under lock and key if you have to-you know what they say, don't get mad get even.

Then just smile sweetly.

My daughter is going through the 15yr old suff at the mo even though she's 11-it's not nice she is banned off msn, I mean who straightens their hair, puts makeup on before going on msn and switching the web cam on?

tsk tsk tsk

Hope your feeling better Tuna
catherine
xx

hayley lol,actually she has a pointxxx

Maggie....................I have 4 daughters, they all go through the brat stage and the only way to survive is for both parents to stand firm on rules and discipline.

Yes.................they do stop and become lovely people.................eventually:)

xx

hang on in there tina-marie have a good chat with your mum
chris x

HIi Tina,

I know its easy said than done, try another chat with OH if he gets snotty return the attitude,
Dont apologise for something you havn't done,
with you having a heart attack is serious, they should not put you under this stress. you shouldn't have to hide your own personal things' it may take time for them to accept but stand up to both of them they need you more than you think.

take care of yourself first both are old enough to look after themselves.wish you luck and good health.

Tuna ((((hug)))

Being the spiteful bitch I AM.....I would ruin her best top or pour something of her down the sink but thats me...lol

Maggie.. you have it in one!!

x x

Have to agree with Kitty here.Sounds like oh and daughter need to get priorities right, ban dinner and go on strike till they learn. Best of luck hun and stick by your guns. Jay.x

Thank you all. I am in a hateful situation, I just want this house finished and then move on now. I am constantly living on my wits and trying to keep Him happy so he doesn't make my life a total misery.

I'm now off to see my Mum, catc you all later x x

Well, if OH won't allow you to tell her off - who does?
If she didn't use it - where did it go?

Perhaps your OH has a secret............

Next time you go shopping for food to feed these two - s*d - go buy some more make up!!!

Your OH needs to realise that, at 15 she isn't a 'little girl' any more - she's a rampant hormonal pain in the ar*se who is likely to try anything - and needs to be told the riot act a few times before humanity returns!!!

maggie
(mother of 2 daughters - been there, got the holes in the doors!!)

i agree with christina.xx

hi tina,
my daughter constantly uses my stuff without asking but woe betide me if i even dare to enter her room!!
i do feel for you having the added stress of not feeling well, i hope you feel much better soon and i keep telling myself that these 15 year old monsters soon turn into really nice daughters
you can talk to me anytime
chris x

oooooooooo,just thinking.i went to aldis yesterday,got mum a powder compact,lipstick [and lippy pencil,4 quid ,if i wanted the eyeshadow in total would have cost me about 5.50.oh and they had blusher aswell.xxx

Awww poor you Tina:(

Your oh should stand with you on this one as with all children, or stepchildren.....................if not, she will play one off against the other to get out of trouble every time.

not fair on her or you.

*gives your oh and stepdaughter a slap*

xx

Bless you Joy, OH isn't talking to me as I dared to show him the depleted stock.

hi hun,bless ya kids can be a pain at that age.ask hubby for a tenner then go to the nearest market and replenish.....if he wont give it ya send me your addy i,ll send it ya.lol
take deep breaths.......and relax outside and cop some rays.xxxx

15 year old step-daughter (first time I have ever called her that, she has always been my daughter) has used all my make-up leaving only a shiny bottom to foundaytion etc.. So what some might say.

This is the only thing that actually makes me feel special when I (very rarely) go out. I haven't got many nice things but this was mine.

She had blatantly lied and says she hasn't used it, she is an accomplished fibber. I am not allowed to 'have a go' as OH gets really snotty and I am in the dog house for the next god knows how long until I apologise.

I have just recently had a heart attack and feel really unwell. I am so upset. How can I reduce this stress?

It's not a big deal in the scheme of things but I have to hide everything now.

I feel better now I have got that off my chest :o))

Thanks for listening.